Sadomasochism is the pairing of sadism, finding or giving pleasure through controlled pain or humiliation, with masochism, receiving pleasure from that same intensity. In practice the two often show up together, with the same person enjoying both roles at different times.
Many people drawn to sadomasochism describe the appeal as the intensity of sensation and the deep trust it requires, rather than pain for its own sake. A scene might involve spanking, flogging, clamps, or verbal dominance, with the pain serving as a channel for connection and release.
Worth knowing: Because sadomasochism involves deliberately inflicting or receiving pain, clear limits, safewords, and aftercare are essential, and both parties should discuss what is wanted before and check in during and after.
Also called: S&M, S/M, sadist, masochist, top, bottom, switch, impact play, sensation play
